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Most days aren’t particularly exciting.
We get up, make coffee, straighten the house, figure out what’s for dinner and do all the ordinary things we’ve done a thousand times before.
But when you have a dog, ordinary days have a way of becoming a little less ordinary.
There’s someone thrilled that you walked into the kitchen.
Someone who thinks a trip to the mailbox qualifies as an adventure.
Someone who can turn sitting on the couch doing absolutely nothing into one of the nicest parts of your day.
Dogs don’t need big plans to make life better.
Usually, they do it in the smallest ways.
You can wake up with messy hair, yesterday’s pajamas and absolutely no enthusiasm for the day ahead.
Your dog doesn’t care.
The tail starts wagging.
Maybe you get a stretch, a little dance or a sleepy face looking up at you from the blankets.
You’ve been asleep for eight hours and somehow your dog is delighted that the two of you have been reunited.
It’s a pretty nice way to start the day.

You weren’t getting food.
You weren’t even thinking about food.
You simply walked toward the kitchen.
That’s enough.
Suddenly you hear paws behind you.
Your dog appears and casually positions themselves where they can monitor the situation.
Maybe you’re only refilling your coffee.
Maybe you’re putting away a dish.
But there’s always a chance cheese could become involved, and your dog isn’t willing to take that risk.
Sometimes you look up and there they are.
Just a little face peeking around the doorway.
They aren’t asking for anything.
They aren’t trying to get your attention.
They just wanted to know where you were.
Once they confirm that you’re exactly where they left you, they may wander away again.
It’s such a tiny thing.
And somehow it feels like love.

You finally sit down after being on your feet all morning.
Apparently, this is an announcement.
One dog appears beside you.
Another finds a spot near your feet.
If you have several dogs, the rest may arrive shortly afterward until the room looks like a small meeting has been called.
This happens at our house all the time.
With five dogs, I rarely have to wonder where everyone is for very long. If I settle somewhere, chances are I’ll have company soon enough.
Apparently sitting quietly together is serious dog business.
A ball.
A stuffed animal.
A squeaky toy that’s missing an ear.
Or something so old and chewed that you’re not entirely sure what it originally was.
Your dog proudly brings it over.
Sometimes they want you to throw it.
Sometimes they absolutely do not want you to touch it.
Apparently your role is simply to admire it.
Either way, you’ve been chosen to participate in something important.

Pick up the leash and suddenly you’ve made someone’s entire day.
It doesn’t matter if you’re going around the block you’ve walked 500 times.
To your dog, today’s walk is brand new.
There are different smells.
Different people.
Different dogs.
Perhaps a squirrel has recently passed through.
Meanwhile, you may notice the sky, the breeze or a neighbor’s flowers simply because your dog got you outside to see them.
Dogs don’t understand every problem we have.
They don’t know why we’re worried about bills, frustrated by something that happened or thinking about someone we miss.
But they seem remarkably good at noticing when we’re quieter than usual.
That’s when a dog may sit a little closer.
Rest a head against you.
Put a paw on your leg.
Or simply stay nearby.
They don’t fix anything.
Sometimes they don’t need to.

Your dog has no idea they’re funny.
That’s part of what makes them so funny.
Maybe they bark fiercely at a cardboard box and then become suspicious when the box doesn’t respond.
Maybe they race through the house for no apparent reason.
Maybe they sleep upside down with all four feet pointing toward the ceiling.
Or perhaps they spend ten minutes carefully arranging a blanket before collapsing in exactly the spot where they started.
You can be having a perfectly dull day, and suddenly you’re laughing.
You could have been gone eight hours.
You could have been gone eight minutes.
The response may be exactly the same.
YOU’RE BACK!
Tails wag.
Feet dance.
Toys appear.
Someone may make noises you’ve never heard another living creature make.
There aren’t many places in life where simply walking through the door makes you the most important person in the room.
Home feels pretty good when someone is that happy to see you.

Laundry isn’t exciting.
Paying bills isn’t exciting.
Working on the computer isn’t exciting.
Dogs don’t seem particularly concerned about that.
They’ll lie nearby while you fold towels.
Sleep under the desk while you work.
Watch you clean the kitchen.
Follow you outside while you water the flowers.
They don’t need entertainment every minute.
Sometimes they just want to be where you are.
And somehow boring chores feel a little less lonely with a dog nearby.
Dog people know this look.
It’s not necessarily the “give me your sandwich” stare, although we’re all familiar with that one too.
This one is softer.
Your dog looks at you from across the room, and for a few seconds the two of you just look at each other.
No words.
No command.
No treat involved.
Just that quiet little connection you’ve built after sharing thousands of ordinary days together.
It’s hard to explain.
But you know it when you see it.

We humans are very good at staying busy.
There’s always one more email.
One more load of laundry.
One more thing that needs to be cleaned, fixed or finished.
Then your dog walks over and puts their head on your knee.
Or drops a toy beside you.
Or rolls onto their back requesting the belly rub they clearly deserve.
And for a minute, you stop.
You scratch behind some ears.
Throw the ball.
Sit on the porch.
Sometimes our dogs are better at reminding us to enjoy the day than we are.
A house with dogs has its own soundtrack.
Tags jingling down the hallway.
Paws clicking across the floor.
A sigh from the dog bed.
The sudden bark announcing that a delivery truck has committed the serious offense of driving past the house.
There are toys in places toys don’t belong.
Dog beds that somehow multiply.
Blankets claimed by someone with four legs.
And yes, probably some dog hair.
But when they’re not there, the house feels strangely quiet.
That’s when you realize how much life they bring into it.

At the time, you don’t always realize you’re making a memory.
You’re just taking a walk.
Sitting outside on a summer evening.
Driving somewhere together.
Watching television with your dog asleep against your leg.
Then years later, those ordinary moments are often the ones you remember most.
Not because anything spectacular happened.
Because your dog was there.
That’s what made the moment matter.

Maybe this is the greatest thing dogs do for us.
They don’t need every day to be exciting.
They don’t care whether the house is perfectly clean.
They don’t know if you accomplished everything on your list.
They aren’t comparing today’s adventure to somebody else’s on social media.
A walk.
A meal.
A comfortable place to sleep.
A few treats.
Some time with you.
To a dog, that can be a very good day.
And after enough years of living with them, maybe we start to understand something they knew all along.
A good life isn’t made entirely from vacations, celebrations and big unforgettable moments.
It’s also made from quiet mornings.
Walks around the neighborhood.
Naps on the couch.
Someone happy to see you.
And the simple comfort of being together.
Those ordinary days we sometimes hurry through?
One day, they may be the days we miss the most.
So scratch those ears a little longer.
Take the slower walk.
Sit together for another ten minutes.
Because your dog isn’t waiting for something better to happen.
As far as they’re concerned, they’re already spending the day with one of their favorite people.
And that’s pretty wonderful.